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From 1.5 Years of Hot & Cold and Third Party Chaos to Engaged💍

Sep 17, 2025

When this client K first came into my world, she had been stuck in one of the most painful dynamics imaginable: a 1.5-year cycle of hot and cold with her specific person. Their situationship was a constant tug of war, with moments of closeness followed by weeks of silence.

But it wasn’t just the inconsistency that felt unbearable to her, it was also the presence of a third party. Her specific person was living together with another woman. No matter what she did, she couldn’t shake the feeling that she was competing with another woman for his love, that she wasn’t the one being chosen. 


Nothing had been working… 

For over one year she had tried affirmations, visualizations… she had ignored the 3D reality and pretended the third party didn’t exist. But nothing had worked. Every method seemed to make her doubt herself even more. That’s when she found me on YouTube. 

What stood out to her was the fact that I didn’t just give “surface-level manifestation tips” but focused on the root cause of why she was experiencing the third party in her reality - the subconscious mind.  

She said “If I don’t change how I feel inside, I know I’ll keep ending up in the same situation with my SP or someone else”.

This awareness is what made her fully commit to the process inside my programs. Since she was dealing with a third party situation and this wasn’t her first time feeling like an option instead of the only one in love, she signed up for both my Manifest Your Specific Person -Program and the Third Party Removal -Program called Get Rid of the Other Woman (or Man)


The shifts she experienced

Once she began the process inside the Third Party Removal -Program, she started noticing shifts internally. For the first time, she stopped seeing the third party as an obstacle and instead used the 3D as a mirror showing her exactly what was inside her subconscious. 

Inside the program she reprogrammed the beliefs that told her she wasn’t good enough, that she would always be second best, and that love meant being left behind. 

She shifted from being the woman who felt anxious in love and not desired, into being the woman who truly saw herself as the one and only in love. 

She described how powerful it felt to no longer need to check social media, stalk the third party, or constantly wonder what her specific person was thinking. Instead she felt calm and certain that she was the chosen one. This internal shift was the key to everything that came next… 

Less than two months later, her entire external reality flipped

Her SP showed up at her door, on his own. He had left the third party and moved out of their house together. He said ”I realized you were the one for me”. 

He told her he couldn’t imagine life without her. And just one month after that, the moment she had once thought was impossible happened: he proposed. 

Today, they are officially engaged and planning their wedding for next year. She also describes him as a “brand new man”. He communicates so much better and showers her with love and affection.

She told me ”I’ve never been happier. This work has changed my life forever”. Her story is living proof that no situation with your specific person is impossible - not third parties and not years of hot and cold behavior. When you shift your subconscious everything changes.

 

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