This client K came to me heartbroken and convinced that she had lost her specific person for good. She had been blocked by her specific person for five long months and she felt completely shut out of his world. It was like she no longer existed to him... like their connection, their love, their history had been erased overnight.
And this wasn’t just someone she had a fling with. They had shared years together - years filled with memories, intimacy and dreams. She thought they had something special. So to be blocked like that, as if none of it had mattered, made her question everything. Her self-worth. Her value. Her ability to be loved.
She was convinced she had lost him for good
She believed there was no way to come back from being completely blocked. No way to shift what felt like a dead end. She believed that if he had loved her, he wouldn’t have cut her off. That he clearly didn’t care anymore.
In the first week of my Manifest Your Specific Person -Program, I asked her a simple question:
“How are you showing up in your life every single day?”. She realized she was still being the version of herself who didn't have her specific person. Her entire world was still revolving around him... she was checking his social media from a fake account, looking at what he was doing and who he was hanging out with. She was wondering if he was with someone else.
Every day, she tried to “figure it out” - what went wrong, what she should’ve done differently, and what would finally make him come back. This behavior is so common, but so destructive. Because when your energy is focused on what’s missing, you unconsciously affirm that what you want is still gone.
The moment everything changed...
When she entered my world, I showed her exactly how to stop making something happen and how to become the woman who he is madly in love with instead.
I showed her how to stop chasing, stop trying, and stop living in the version of reality where she wasn’t chosen.
We shifted her energy from “how do I get him back” to “how do I become the woman he never stops thinking about”.
She learned how to take her power back. How to make herself the top priority in her own life. How to stop being available to the version of him who didn’t see her value, and instead anchor into the version of her who was unforgettable.
That’s when everything changed.
The moment she let go of control and reconnected with herself, her entire reality shifted.
She no longer needed him to come back in order to feel whole… and that’s when he came back.
After five months of being blocked, he came back
That one evening she was sitting at home when she got a notification on her phone and she noticed that it was a friend request from her specific person on Instagram.
At first her heart raced and for a moment she felt like all of that old anxiety came creeping in and a few hours later she got a message from him saying "Hey I know it's been a while but I just wanted to reach out. I have been thinking about you a lot lately and I realized that I miss having you in my life. I'm really sorry for how things ended".
He told her he had blocked her in anger. That he had been overwhelmed. That he regretted how he handled everything.
And now they have been together for almost a year. And she feels more secure, happy and grounded. She’s more in love with life and herself than ever.
